'It's not perfect online, but it definitely fills a gap that just wasn't available for us locally,' Eliza said. They eventually both found CSAT's available right away, based in Sydney. With local mental health hotlines confirming there were no services locally, Eliza contacted a psychologist who said they needed to find a certified sex addiction therapist (CSAT). ' world had come undone, so he was collapsing, so caring for someone who is having suicidal ideation and trying to work out how get the best help,' Eliza said. The process of finding help for both Eliza and her husband was not straightforward. 'To have conversations with other partners has been a huge relief.'